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Apr 02 11:22 PM Sassy: What should I talk about?
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Apr 02 11:22 PM Kris: what would you like to?
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Apr 02 11:22 PM Sassy: Hmmm
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Apr 02 11:23 PM Sassy: Are you barefoot?
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Apr 02 11:23 PM Kris: no...have socks on...sitting
on sofa with feet up on coffee table...
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Apr 02 11:24 PM Kris: do you still have your work
clothes on?
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Apr 02 11:26 PM Sassy: Yes
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Apr 02 11:26 PM Sassy: Plunked down here at 6 PM and
haven’t budged
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Apr 02 11:26 PM Kris: where r u in your house...specifically?
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Apr 02 11:27 PM Sassy: I have a desk in the living
room
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Apr 02 11:27 PM Kris: you're sitting at it?
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Apr 02 11:27 PM Sassy: yes
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Apr 02 11:27 PM Sassy: on my laptop
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Apr 02 11:27 PM Kris: is the chair comfortable
you're sitting in?
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Apr 02 11:27 PM Sassy: I look out a glass wall -
big patio doors, balcony
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Apr 02 11:28 PM Sassy: 5 floors up...
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Apr 02 11:28 PM Sassy: can see out all over
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Apr 02 11:28 PM Kris: do u really live in the
city?
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Apr 02 11:28 PM Sassy: Yes
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Apr 02 11:28 PM Kris: do u like it there?
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Apr 02 11:28 PM Sassy: Yes
·
Apr 02 11:29 PM Kris: sorry if i'm assuming too
much...but if we had sex where would we have it?
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Apr 02 11:29 PM Sassy: Good question
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Apr 02 11:30 PM Kris: a detail to think about
later...not now?
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Apr 02 11:30 PM Sassy: In my bed?
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Apr 02
11:30 PM Sassy: In the kitchen?
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Apr 02 11:30 PM Sassy: In a hotel?
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Apr 02 11:30 PM Kris: how could we have sex in
your bed...or kitchen?
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Apr 02 11:31 PM Sassy: How big is your backseat?
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Apr 02 11:31 PM Kris: way too small...i have a
"manly bike" and a "girly car"
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Apr 02 11:31 PM Sassy: Ha ha
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Apr 02 11:32 PM Kris: i like your adventurous
spirit
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Apr 02 11:32 PM Sassy: I used to have a
mini-van... so good for philandering!
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Apr 02 11:32 PM Sassy: But it died last year
·
Apr 02 11:32 PM Kris: seriously...would it be
possible to have sex at your house?
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Apr 02 11:32 PM Sassy: Yes
·
Apr 02 11:32 PM Kris: what about your husband?
·
Apr 02 11:33 PM Sassy: He goes out
·
Apr 02 11:33 PM Kris: wouldn't you worry he might
come home unexpectedly?
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Apr 02 11:33 PM Sassy: No
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Apr 02 11:33 PM Kris: why?
·
Apr 02 11:33 PM Sassy: Because I tell him... go
away. I'll text you when it's safe to come back.
·
Apr 02 11:34 PM Kris: so he knows what you're
doing...just not with who?
·
Apr 02 11:34 PM Sassy: well not exactly what but
generally what
·
Apr 02 11:34 PM Kris: he knows you're with a man?
·
Apr 02 11:34 PM Sassy: Yes
·
Apr 02 11:35 PM Kris: omg...hard for me to imagine...what
keeps you married...money?
·
Apr 02 11:35 PM Sassy: We are good friends, make a
good team...
·
Apr 02 11:35 PM Kris: you're not hurt and angry
that he rejected you sexaully?
·
Apr 02 11:36 PM Sassy: I would rather he not
have... life would be so much simpler
·
Apr 02 11:36 PM Sassy: But what can he do?
·
Apr 02 11:36 PM Sassy: You can't make someone be
attracted to you
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Apr 02 11:36 PM Sassy: I tried
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Apr 02 11:37 PM Kris: how long have u been
married?
·
Apr 02 11:37 PM Sassy: I was very surprised he
would not help me...
· Apr 02
11:37 PM Sassy: once I figured out what a man could do to get me
off
· Apr 02
11:37 PM Sassy: 17 yrs
· Apr 02
11:37 PM Kris: sorry for interrupting...keep going
· Apr 02
11:38 PM Sassy: But he can't really function alone... he's one
of those creative types who the realities of life are beyond them
· Apr 02
11:38 PM Sassy: Needs a keeper. And I volunteered to do it.
· Apr 02
11:39 PM Kris: go back to what you were saying about surprised
he would not help you...once you figured out what a man could do to get you off
· Apr 02
11:43 PM Sassy: I asked him to help me wit his fingers or
mouth...
· Apr 02
11:44 PM Kris: on your clit?
· Apr 02
11:44 PM Sassy: yes
· Apr 02
11:44 PM Kris: that's one of the first things my first wife
taught me how to do...and exactly how...
· Apr 02
11:45 PM Kris: sorry...why didn't your husband want to do it?
· Apr 02
11:45 PM Sassy: Do you like it or just do it to please a woman
who likes it?
· Apr 02
11:45 PM Kris: both
· Apr 02
11:45 PM Sassy: Not clear why
· Apr 02
11:45 PM Kris: so you asked him to?
· Apr 02
11:46 PM Sassy: After I got back from visiting old flame
· Apr 02
11:46 PM Sassy: I resolved to focus on Hubby, show him what I'd
learned, thought he might renew his interest
· Apr 02
11:47 PM Kris: do u remember his exact reaction...what he said?
· Apr 02
11:48 PM Kris: does it bother you to talk about this...we don't
have to...i just find it helps me know the "real you"...so i can
"get inside you" in more ways than one...sex works that way for me...
· Apr 02
11:49 PM Sassy: Hmmm
· Apr 02
11:49 PM Sassy: Can't recall exactly
· Apr 02
11:49 PM Kris: he just didn't seem interested... and you were...what?
hurt? angry? disappointed? all the above?
· Apr 02
11:50 PM Sassy: After 10 yrs of nothing, not surprised. Sad.
· Apr 02
11:50 PM Kris: so you had sex for how many years...before you
stopped?
· Apr 02
11:51 PM Sassy: we met online
· Apr 02
11:51 PM Sassy: he moved here about a year later
· Apr 02
11:52 PM Sassy: we married the following year
· Apr 02
11:52 PM Sassy: He stopped wanting me about three years later
· Apr 02
11:52 PM Sassy: So about 5 yrs of sex, now and then
· Apr 02
11:53 PM Sassy: He had gained a lot of weight, made it tough
· Apr 02
11:53 PM Kris: he came when you had sex...but you never did...that's
hard for me to imagine...although i had a "one night stand" once with
a woman who came with me and said that was her first orgasm...i wasn't sure if
i believed her...but i think she was telling the truth...
·
Apr 02 11:54 PM Kris: how did his weight make it
hard?
·
Apr 02 11:54 PM Sassy: He got above 500 lbs
·
Apr 02 11:54 PM Kris: wow...that's big
·
Apr 02 11:54 PM Sassy: then had bariatric surgery,
got down to 268
·
Apr 02 11:55 PM Sassy: I thought we'd start again
then
·
Apr 02 11:55 PM Kris: is that the surgery where
they cut out part of your stomach?
·
Apr 02 11:56 PM Sassy: He had the ruen-Y procedure
where they tie off part of the stomach and reconnect things into the small
intestine
·
Apr 02 11:56 PM Sassy: So you can't eat as much,
there is malabsorption etc
·
Apr 02 11:57 PM Sassy: It saved his life
·
Apr 02 11:57 PM Kris: so when he got down to 268
did you directly do anything to try and ask him to have sex with you again?
·
Apr 03 12:00 AM Sassy: Yes
·
Apr 03 12:00 AM Sassy: I've tried everything
·
Apr 03 12:00 AM Sassy: lingerie, p0rn, erotica,
back rubs
·
Apr 03 12:00 AM Sassy: overnights away
·
Apr 03 12:01 AM Kris: so if nothing was
working...but you're all horny because you've discovered how pleasurable sex is...what
did you do before starting affairs/trysts with other men?
·
Apr 03 12:02 AM Sassy: Lots of cybersex with old
flame
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Apr 03 12:02 AM Sassy: wrote a lot of erotica
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Apr 03 12:02 AM Kris: video cam?
·
Apr 03 12:02 AM Sassy: no. tried it once... eh
·
Apr 03 12:03 AM Kris: eh...meaning...didn't like
it?
·
Apr 03 12:03 AM Sassy: had tech issues - kept
cutting out
·
Apr 03 12:03 AM Sassy: felt odd... performing...
·
Apr 03 12:03 AM Kris: with old flame?
·
Apr 03 12:03 AM Sassy: yes
·
Apr 03 12:03 AM Kris: so just did what...chatted?...emailed?
·
Apr 03 12:04 AM Sassy: chatted, phone
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Apr 03 12:04 AM Sassy: shared porn
·
Apr 03 12:04 AM Kris: was the old flame the
military man?
·
Apr 03 12:04 AM Sassy: yes
·
Apr 03 12:04 AM Kris: how did you share porn?
·
Apr 03 12:04 AM Sassy: I'd email him links and
we'd watch it together
·
Apr 03 12:04 AM Kris: did you masturbate?
·
Apr 03 12:05 AM Sassy: sometimes
·
Apr 03 12:05 AM Kris: did you use your fingers or
a toy or vibrator?
·
Apr 03 12:05 AM Sassy: my hand
·
Apr 03 12:05 AM Sassy: haven't used the toys
·
Apr 03 12:06 AM Kris: what toys do you have?
·
Apr 03 12:06 AM Sassy: hoping you will help me
break them in
·
Apr 03 12:06 AM Kris: i would LOVE to...
·
Apr 03 12:06 AM Sassy: I have a stunt cock - this
massive 9 in thing
·
Apr 03 12:06 AM Sassy: and a 4 other smaller ones
·
Apr 03 12:07 AM Kris: smaller "stunt
cocks"?
·
Apr 03 12:07 AM Sassy: no... a bullet like thing and
a couple of tubular thing
·
Apr 03 12:07 AM Kris: like a "dildo"
·
Apr 03 12:07 AM Sassy: and a rabbit keychain
·
Apr 03 12:08 AM Kris: i know what a rabbit
is...but what's a rabbit keychain?
·
Apr 03 12:08 AM Sassy: it's like the rabbit only
little with a metal loop for keys
·
Apr 03 12:08 AM Sassy: silly
·
Apr 03 12:08 AM Kris: do you have a rabbit?
·
Apr 03 12:08 AM Sassy: no
·
Apr 03 12:09 AM Sassy: I think if I were doing it
again, I'd get a rabbit and one of those hitachi wand things. Or a Lelo
·
Apr 03 12:09 AM Kris: don't know what any of
those are...other than rabbit
·
Apr 03 12:11 AM
Sassy: Lelo link http://www.lelo.com/index.php?collectionName=femme-homme&groupName=GIGI-2
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Apr 03 12:11 AM Kris: lol...i'll check it out
later...you're funny!...but thanks...
·
Apr 03 12:12 AM Kris: do you think you'd actually
find it fun to try some of those things?
· Apr 03
12:12 AM Sassy: the wand is that big massager thing you can buy
at any pharmacy
· Apr 03
12:12 AM Sassy: I think so, with the right guy
· Apr 03
12:12 AM Sassy: Have you played with them?
· Apr 03
12:13 AM Kris: no...but i think it would be fun to try them out
· Apr 03
12:13 AM Sassy: Yeah.
· Apr 03
12:14 AM Sassy: Was thinking to put it between us maybe
· Apr 03
12:14 AM Sassy: But I am mostly clueless
· Apr 03
12:15 AM Kris: me too...so what we'd need to do is just get to
a point where we were just comfortable playing and learning and finding out
what worked and what didn't...just "being comfortable" and "not
too worried about it all" helps...
· Apr 03
12:15 AM Sassy: yes
· Apr 03
12:15 AM Sassy: try... talk about it...yes? No? higher? etc.
· Apr 03
12:16 AM Sassy: try different ones... compare and contrast. Heh
· Apr 03
12:16 AM Kris: right...
· Apr 03
12:16 AM Sassy: You want them inside you?
· Apr 03
12:16 AM Sassy: Find that p-spot?
· Apr 03
12:16 AM Kris: not sure...never done that...yet
· Apr 03
12:17 AM Sassy: I tried it once with my finger
· Apr 03
12:17 AM Kris: how did it feel?
· Apr 03
12:17 AM Sassy: while I was sucking on someone... reached lower
· Apr 03
12:17 AM Sassy: pressed a finger inside him at the same pace
· Apr 03
12:18 AM Kris: i could imagine that could feel good...just
never did it
· Apr 03
12:18 AM Sassy: Got to hear those immortal word
· Apr 03
12:18 AM Sassy: "I've never cum so hard in my life"
· Apr 03
12:18 AM Sassy: : )
· Apr 03
12:18 AM Kris: that's what the guy said?
· Apr 03
12:18 AM Sassy: yes
· Apr 03
12:19 AM Sassy: I had read about it... he let me try
· Apr 03
12:20 AM Kris: ok...so now i've got a hard on...and when we're
finished chatting if i go look at my cock there will be a small flow of seminal
fluid...and i don't want to rush you...but I hope i get to fuck more than words
on a screen someday...and not 3 months from now...
· Apr 03
12:20 AM Sassy: I hear you
· Apr 03
12:20 AM Sassy: I wonder if you will...
· Apr 03
12:20 AM Kris: will what?
· Apr 03
12:21 AM Sassy: Want me
· Apr 03
12:21 AM Kris: why wouldn't i?
· Apr 03
12:21 AM Sassy: You haven't wanted the others
· Apr 03
12:21 AM Kris: i forget what i told you...remind me
· Apr 03
12:21 AM Sassy: heh
· Apr 03
12:22 AM Kris: what did i tell you...about not wanting others?
· Apr 03
12:22 AM Sassy: You said you've been on AM 6 mos, met 3 women, no sex
· Apr 03
12:22 AM Sassy: Makes me wonder if you're a chaser
· Apr 03
12:23 AM Kris: i would have had sex with 2 out of 3 of them...only
1 wanted me...the other 2 broke it off...not me...what's a "chaser"?
· Apr 03
12:23 AM Sassy: guys who get off on the chase but don't close
the deal
· Apr 03
12:23 AM Sassy: due to guilt or whatever
· Apr 03
12:24 AM Kris: well...there's a quick and easy way to find
out...
· Apr 03
12:24 AM Sassy: life is so odd... you want 2 but they don't, 1
wants you but you don't?
· Apr 03
12:25 AM Kris: ok...be a little patient...i'll explain...but
try not to "go on" too much...
· Apr 03
12:25 AM Sassy: You don't have to now... it's okay
==================================
· Apr 03
12:25 AM Sassy: So meeting
· Apr 03
12:25 AM Sassy: How do you see that?
· Apr 03
12:25 AM Sassy: Weekday? Weekend?
Best time?
· Apr 03
12:26 AM Kris: first...what is the meeting for?
· Apr 03
12:26 AM Sassy: to see if there's chemistry?
· Apr 03
12:27 AM Sassy: a meal... talking... then if we want... steam up
the windows of my car?
· Apr 03
12:28 AM Kris: ok...the meal...talking...and if we want sex
right then and there fine...but rather be in a bed someplace...at least for the
first time.
· Apr 03
12:28 AM Sassy: maybe say... not sex first time... kissing...
touching...
· Apr 03
12:28 AM Sassy: plan another meet soon?
· Apr 03
12:30 AM Kris: Ok...a meal...lots of talking...and if we feel
like kissing/touching maybe...but i have to admit something about kissing and
touching...
· Apr 03
12:30 AM Sassy: Yes?
· Apr 03
12:31 AM Kris: i'm not very good at being "romantic"
with things like kissing and touching that doesn't lead to...or is just part of...sex
all the way...
· Apr 03
12:31 AM Kris: i can try to learn...but it's just never been a
big part of how i show affection...except playful hugging or very light kissing...
· Apr 03 12:32 AM Kris: but when i'm having sex i
love deep kissing
·
Apr 03 12:32 AM Sassy: what if the woman is a very
good kisser? Like... better than anyone you've been with?
·
Apr 03 12:33 AM Kris: then i'll want to fuck your
brains out
·
Apr 03 12:33 AM Sassy: So were you thinking a meal
and if that works... a hotel?
·
Apr 03 12:34 AM Kris: no...i was thinking a meal...and
a big tease of anticipation...planning a hotel on the next meeting...if the
chemistry is there on the first...but if you grab me and kiss me...that can be
part of the tease...
·
Apr 03 12:35 AM Sassy: mmm
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Apr 03 12:35 AM Kris: or maybe i'll change my
mind...after you give me that kiss like i've never had before...but i think if
I have to wait for the second meeting that would be fun...and it wouldn't have
to be a long wait...just a second time...
·
Apr 03 12:36 AM Kris: what r u thinking...doesn't
have to be what i'm thinking...what do u what to do?
·
Apr 03 12:37 AM Sassy: Thinking
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Apr 03 12:38 AM Sassy: I think we're mostly
thinking the same
·
Apr 03 12:38 AM Sassy: Worth a look
·
Apr 03 12:38 AM Sassy: talking
·
Apr 03 12:39 AM Kris: and?
·
Apr 03 12:39 AM Sassy: you'll tell me if you want
more
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Apr 03 12:40 AM Kris: and if i do...you're ready
to go?
·
Apr 03 12:40 AM Sassy: If I feel it too
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Apr 03 12:40 AM Kris: GOOD ANSWER!!!!!
·
Apr 03 12:41 AM Kris: ok...back to when/where,
etc.
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Apr 03 12:41 AM Sassy: : )
·
Apr 03 12:44 AM Kris: you work 9 to what?...M-F?
·
Apr 03 12:44 AM Sassy: Yes. tomorrow night? Friday
lunch? Monday?
·
Apr 03 12:45 AM Sassy: Thursday lunch?
·
Apr 03 12:46 AM Kris: I could do tomorrow
night...a little later...but wouldn't be able to do more than eat and talk...which
would be ok...then we could do more if we felt it... on Friday...
·
Apr 03 12:47 AM Kris: or lunch on Friday with
more time left for...maybe we'll want to do more than talk...but i don't want
that experience "rushed"...especially the first time...
·
Apr 03 12:48 AM Sassy: I am off work Friday
·
Apr 03 12:48 AM Sassy: And Monday
·
Apr 03 12:49 AM Kris: i'm off Friday...just have
to take delivery of my new bike at noon at the storage shed i'm hiding it from
my wife in...could be an exciting day of "hiding things"...on Friday...
·
Apr 03 12:50 AM Sassy: Do you know this area at
all?
·
Apr 03 12:51 AM Kris: generally...but i have a
GPS in my car so if i have an address i'd be fine...
·
Apr 03
12:51 AM Kris: what restaurant do you like?
·
Apr 03 12:51 AM Sassy: When are we talking now?
·
Apr 03 12:51 AM Kris: 1:30-2:00
·
Apr 03 12:52 AM Sassy: Friday?
·
Apr 03 12:52 AM Kris: yes...but now that i think
of it...better make it 2:00
·
Apr 03 12:53 AM Sassy: Okay
·
Apr 03 12:53 AM Kris: where...you choose a
restaurant you really like...
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Apr 03 12:55 AM Sassy: Could you deal with PF Chang's?
·
Apr 03 12:55 AM Sassy: There's one in the mall
·
Apr 03 12:55 AM Sassy: So easy parking underground
·
Apr 03 12:56 AM Kris: i assume it's chinese food?
·
Apr 03 12:56 AM Sassy: Yes
·
Apr 03 12:56 AM Kris: sounds good...sure...do you
have an address...or i can just google it
·
Apr 03 12:57 AM Sassy: [detailed
instructions]
·
Apr 03 1:01 AM Kris: i just googled it...i'll
find it...
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Apr 03 1:01 AM Sassy: Let me give you a Sassy
phone number
·
Apr 03 1:01 AM Sassy: in case
·
Apr 03 1:01 AM Kris: k
·
Apr 03 1:01 AM
Kris: here's mine: [xxx-xxx-xxxx]
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Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: [xxx-xxx-xxxx]
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Apr 03 1:02 AM Kris: thanks!
·
Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: That's a google voice
number
·
Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: It will ask your name the
first time you call
·
Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: then ask me to approve
answering
·
Apr 03 1:02 AM Sassy: so connection takes a few
seconds
·
Apr 03 1:03 AM Kris: k
·
Apr 03 1:03 AM Sassy: I think it shows are a CA
number
·
Apr 03 1:04 AM Kris: k...but all i need to do is
give my name...and wait...
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Apr 03 1:04 AM Sassy: right
·
Apr 03 1:04 AM Sassy: can you test it now or no?
·
Apr 03 1:05 AM Kris: yes...doing it right now...can’t
wait to hear your voice!
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