Wednesday, May 7, 2014
Kris: Make good use of your time today. For example, you could practice playing w yourself pretending I’m in the room watching you... ;) 8:19 AM
Me: Good morning! You woke up frisky! 9:19 AM
Kris: I did! How's your day going? 12:21 PM
Me: Great! Having your antipasto lunch. So yummy! 12:23 PM
Kris: Oh?...how come? 12:25 PM
Me: Because it's delicious and free! 12:27 PM
Kris: lol....had the same...part of. thought for u sex of some kind....maybe "dessert"....lol 12:28 PM
Me: Dessert? 12:28 PM
Kris: dessert! 12:30 PM
Me: Yum! I am eyeing the apple pie and raspberries... 12:31 PM
Kris: weather...omg! Window down, blasting music. Gotta get on bike...get u on it...do u on it? 12:33 PM
Kris: u should go for a walk 12:33 PM
Kris: starting work... out at 6:30....time to make the donuts (remember that ad?) 12:36 PM
Me: Make mine Boston Cream. :) Be focused and helpful! 12:39 PM
Kris: lol....at client's.....later! 12:41 PM
Kris: out of work just now. so off to gym....probably home around 10...will check a little after that to see if you're up to chat and can "squeeze me in" (feel free to take that any way u like)... :) 7:08 PM
Me: Wow! I’m in Gloucester, eating clam chowder and lobster casserole. Chat later! 7:11 PM
Kris: Good for you! I actually thought of that after I suggested you take a walk. I thought....she should at least get out....go to Gloucester or something...Glad u did! Enjoy! Chat later.. :) 7:15 PM
Me: We were heading to Newburyport but the traffic was fierce so we switched. It's beautiful! I got chocolate from Nichols Candy House. Om nom nom. 7:18 PM
Kris: w H? 7:19 PM
Me: I had to take Hubby to his psychopharm appt, just kept on going! 7:19 PM
Me: Yes. 7:20 PM
Kris: Good! not moping...much 7:21 PM
Me: Awww...you and I will have our fun. Much more than with Hubby who is reading Facebook the whole time! 7:24 PM
Kris: Oh well. at least you're out.....and so sweet! 7:26 PM
Kris: Sorry it's late...b on in 5 10:40 PM
Kris: Been on IM last 15 min. u may b busy...or asleep? will b up till 11:30....if u want to chat briefly 11:02 PM
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· May 07 10:47 PM Kris: Hi!
· May 07 10:52 PM Kris: Almost time for bed...you up...on here?
· May 07 11:08 PM Sassy: Hiya!
· May 07 11:08 PM Kris: Hi!
· May 07 11:08 PM Kris: How was your trip to Gloucester?
· May 07 11:09 PM Sassy: Divine! So good to get away!
· May 07 11:09 PM Sassy: Did you have a nice evening?
· May 07 11:10 PM Kris: ok...nothing special...worked out for 1 1/2 hours after work, came home and showered...on here with you...(that's special--not the rest) : D
· May 07 11:11 PM Kris: did you walk around at all...or just eat out?
· May 07 11:12 PM Sassy: We went to the candy store, then to dinner and then home
· May 07 11:12 PM Sassy: I wanted to walk on the beach was it was too late, getting dark
· May 07 11:12 PM Kris: where's the candy store?
· May 07 11:13 PM Sassy: Just off 128, right before you go over the big bridge into Gloucester
· May 07 11:13 PM Sassy: Nichols Candy House
· May 07 11:13 PM Kris: what did u get?
· May 07 11:15 PM Sassy: A pound assortment. They walk around with you and you point and they fill the box
· May 07 11:16 PM Sassy: Pecan bark, cashew clusters, raisin clusters, salted caramels, PB cups, toffee, truffles, walnut turtles, raspberry cremes
· May 07 11:16 PM Kris: Mmmmmm...all sounds really yummy!
· May 07 11:17 PM Kris: do u still have the candy from our meet?.....stored away with the toys?....lol
· May 07 11:17 PM Sassy: Yup
· May 07 11:17 PM Kris: u haven't been nibbling on it at all?
· May 07 11:17 PM Sassy: Nope
· May 07 11:17 PM Kris: how come?
· May 07 11:17 PM Sassy: I had a bunch of other stuff in my drawer I've working through
· May 07 11:18 PM Sassy: And somebody brought me cheesecake!
· May 07 11:18 PM Kris: : D
· May 07 11:19 PM Kris: I should help you with some of that candy....diet or not
· May 07 11:19 PM Sassy: Indeed!
· May 07 11:20 PM Kris: so what else is happening in the world of Sassy?
· May 07 11:22 PM Sassy: Not much, between staying home today and going out on an adventure tonight!
· May 07 11:22 PM Sassy: Proofread the monthly project newsletter
· May 07 11:22 PM Kris: do you write it?
· May 07 11:23 PM Sassy: No. Sis does
· May 07 11:23 PM Kris: just check for minor errors?
· May 07 11:23 PM Sassy: I click all the links
· May 07 11:23 PM Sassy: check the dates
· May 07 11:23 PM Sassy: Make sure it scans
· May 07 11:23 PM Kris: is it an online one?
· May 07 11:24 PM Sassy: You wanna see?
· May 07 11:24 PM Kris: sure
· May 07 11:24 PM Sassy: It's Constant Contact... you familiar with them?
· May 07 11:24 PM Kris: no
· May 07 11:25 PM Sassy: It's a company that makes keeping a mailing list and doing newsletters easier
· May 07 11:25 PM Kris: oh
· May 07 11:27 PM Kris: r u in the process of showing it to me here?
· May 07 11:27 PM Sassy: I will email it
· May 07 11:27 PM Kris: ok....i'll look at it later
· May 07 11:28 PM Sassy: This is a trust thing...
· May 07 11:28 PM Kris: why?
· May 07 11:28 PM Sassy: sharing part of my "real life"
· May 07 11:29 PM Kris: you're going to figure out eventually that I am NEVER going to hurt you in any way...and neither is my wife...even if by some stupid mistake I get caught. I know you've got rules about things because you've been burned in the past, and i respect you for that and it makes sense.....but you will NEVER be hurt by me or my wife in any way...EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
· May 07 11:30 PM Sassy: : )
· May 07 11:30 PM Kris: thank you for trusting me with it....i'll treat it with the respect it deserves.
· May 07 11:31 PM Sassy: Lots of things going on !
· May 07 11:33 PM Kris: I'm tempted to ask you questions about it....but i'll just read it later.....i'm going to force myself to say goodnight by 12 at the latest....even though I LOVE chatting with you and find it hard to say goodnight....until i'm practically exhausted....but Thursdays are my heaviest days at work.
· May 07 11:33 PM Sassy: No problem.
· May 07 11:34 PM Sassy: I have to go back to work tomorrow, then taking my older sister out for her birthday.
· May 07 11:34 PM Kris: when's her b-day?
· May 07 11:36 PM Sassy: end of March
· May 07 11:37 PM Kris: WHAT? little late on the celebrating isn't it?...LOL
· May 07 11:37 PM Sassy: Yeah... that happens every year
· May 07 11:37 PM Kris: well...at least you do something for her....does anyone else?
· May 07 11:37 PM Sassy: Yes. We all work into her schedule eventually
· May 07 11:38 PM Kris: is she really busy?
· May 07 11:38 PM Sassy: She takes yoga and tai chi and has people over and works too much
· May 07 11:39 PM Kris: typical American....we work more than almost the whole rest of the world...especially Europeans who take much more time off just to relax than us....
· May 07 11:39 PM Kris: speaking of work....how do you feel about tomorrow?
· May 07 11:40 PM Sassy: Fine
· May 07 11:40 PM Kris: too bad one person can make your life so miserable
· May 07 11:40 PM Sassy: Boss and four of the senior staff are out. Should be quiet
· May 07 11:41 PM Sassy: She wrote to say, "Sorry to do stuff while you were out, but I had an idea to rearrange our office and went with it."
· May 07 11:41 PM Sassy: Can't wait to see how messed up that is
· May 07 11:41 PM Kris: sorry...but i can't help but laugh....what do you think she means?
· May 07 11:41 PM Sassy: No clue
· May 07 11:41 PM Kris: what does she mean by "our office"?
· May 07 11:43 PM Sassy: We share an office. Plus one other person and the student interns
· May 07 11:44 PM Sassy: I was thinking today about quitting my job to take care of my mother
· May 07 11:44 PM Sassy: Would probably make me nuts... and mess up my health care
· May 07 11:44 PM Sassy: But just shows how bad off I am
· May 07 11:45 PM Kris: what do you mean by bad off?....how badlly you're feeling about all this?
· May 07 11:45 PM Sassy: yes
· May 07 11:45 PM Kris: I'm sorry to hear that.....
· May 07 11:45 PM Sassy: Eh... this too shall pass
· May 07 11:46 PM Kris: maybe you'll get lucky and she'll get canned....what are the odds do you think?
· May 07 11:47 PM Sassy: Dunno... praying VERY HARD
· May 07 11:47 PM Kris: sorry. laughing again...but i know it's not funny...
· May 07 11:48 PM Sassy: Might as well laugh
· May 07 11:49 PM Kris: I had an intern I'm working with venting to me at work today...about how negative her experience had become. guy supervising her at my office back bit her to her professor...and a couple other co-workers kind of "ganged up" on her....
· May 07 11:49 PM Kris: I listened to her vent for 1/2 hour...was late -talking to her on sidewalk...she was very distressed
· May 07 11:49 PM Sassy: Oh dear
· May 07 11:52 PM Kris: yeah...she's a great person...struggling with paperwork because English is her second language....she's bright, experienced in life, very intuitive, does a good job interpreting for me with Hispanic family. I told her she could "shadow" me on more cases and that I'd advocate for her with people at the office. Her supervisor asked me what I thought. I didn't tell him yet. I'm going to defend her....but discreetly.
· May 07 11:52 PM Sassy: Good
· May 07 11:53 PM Kris: is there anyone at your office...or in HR....or your union...who can help you.....or as you say....may just be "politically too soon" to complain?
· May 07 11:55 PM Sassy: I will wait until they say if she is staying
· May 07 11:55 PM Kris: when will that be?
· May 07 11:55 PM Sassy: Her contract is up July 1
· May 07 11:55 PM Kris: if she stays will they make it permanent?
· May 07 11:56 PM Sassy: Probably
· May 07 11:56 PM Kris: well...guess you need to keep praying hard....
· May 07 11:57 PM Kris: before I forget....or turn into a pumpkin (at 12)...I meant to say about "real life"....
· May 08 12:01 AM Kris: I would say my relationship with you...chatting...spending time with you.. having SEX with you...is just as much a part of your "real life" as anything else you do....and eventually you'll slip and I'll know your real first name ... "Ms. [my first initial and real last name]".. BUT I WILL NEVER HURT YOU......EVER....IN ANY WAY!!!!!!!!! (And neither will my wife---even if I ever got caught).
· May 08 12:01 AM Kris: it's 12:01....any last burning thing to say?
· May 08 12:02 AM Sassy: You are a very special man. Don't ever forget there is a buxom vixen who thinks so!
· May 08 12:02 AM Kris: Mmmmm...buxom...won't forget!
· May 08 12:02 AM Sassy: Sweet sexy dreams Kris.
· May 08 12:03 AM Kris: You too Sassy...night!
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